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Of course these norms are sometimes violated, but their violation generates gossip.

A married woman who dresses too sexually is suspected of being interested in and available for extramarital sex. In addition to being curious as to how women manage and experience this transition to the expectations of marriage—a transition that looked to me like a diminution of agency in areas where single women seemed to experience ificant liberty—I was also perplexed by how men understood and reconciled Eustace Texas women who want to fuck they observe in the general behavior of single women with what they expect from their own wives.

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Or was it a continuing source of anxiety? The answer, I found, was some combination of all of these and.

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I was relieved that Benjamin did not seem in the least to assume I was asking about his own situation Sex personals Casmalia was notand he immediately told me a story. Recently, his NGO had been coordinating a program with local churches to utilize religious leaders and institutions in AIDS prevention efforts.

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The Reverend Father was also pleased at the coincidence and seemed proud that his wife was a university graduate. Further, the incentives for premarital sexuality are so great that I am quite sure the phenomenon I am examining is exceedingly common. The reasons why women feel not only obliged but highly motivated to marry and to transform themselves from promiscuous girls to good wives have been alluded to.

Marriage and parenthood remain the paramount markers of a life well lived for both men and women, and for women the achievement Taos ski valley NM sex dating this status comes with many benefits as well as many constraints.

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But the questions remain: how are young women able to manage their self-presentation for men as they make the shift from single to married; how is the transformation experienced by women once they are married; and how is all this experienced by men?

The demographics of courtship and marriage and the social process by which they occur Today huge cock adult hookupss you host m4mw a big part of the explanation for how such a dramatic transformation is possible.

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The first Girls in chattanooga that wants to fuck migration. While migration is part of what enables young women to experience ificant sexual freedom, it also protects. For most women who have led what Nigerians describe as promiscuous premarital sex lives, their sexual behavior occurs in the context of migration away from their mostly rural places of origin.

Local fuck Springfield Massachusetts such, many, if not most, young women are having premarital sexual relationships in cities and towns or in secondary school and university settings where they live away from the monitoring and supervision of their parents and extended families. To the extent that young women are considered sexually promiscuous, it is frequently in the context of their relationships with older married men, with whom they are seen as trading sex for economic support.

These sugar daddies are not potential suitors for marriage, and young women do not risk alienating a potential husband if they appear sexually eager, aggressive, or adventurous in these relationships.

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Although most Igbo communities are patrilineal and marriage is always lineage exogamous, in a wider sense Igbo society is highly endogamous. Fwb married guy Igboland, there is a strong preference and expectation that people should marry from neighboring communities with whom their families and communities have reliable and long-term ties.

High levels of out-migration and the mixing that is the result of urbanization, co-educational schools and universities, and livelihood strategies that take even rural residents to far-flung destinations have put pressure on this endogamous pattern.

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More and more young people seek Housewives seeking hot sex New Site marry spouses from far-away communities, and families are beginning to recognize that in an era of economic transformation, this can be a good strategy. Nevertheless, most marriages among people who have otherwise circulated widely in Nigerian society during their young adulthood still occur between people from the same regional areas in Igboland.

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Further, when young Igbos meet potential spouses in cities, it is often through introductions by people from their same area of origin, as everyone is mindful of the norm that such ties make the most stable marriages.

The practical consequence is that many young people know very little about each other when they begin to Sex clubs de Belle Vernon, and it is quite possible for a woman to hide any history of sexual relationships from a potential husband. As a consequence, in the most typical pattern of Igbo marriage, it is quite possible for a young woman to hide her sexual past from her future husband, his family, and his community.

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While this explains how in individual cases young women can marry and become good wives without the risk of a reputation haunting them, it does not address how women adjust to this transition, or how men reconcile the 08033 bitches sex chat lines that so many young women had concurrent sexual partnerships before marriage with their expectations that their own wives will be faithful.

These were extremely difficult questions to navigate in interviews. What I report emerges partly from what can be gleaned from interviews Moss Point flirting american pussy younger married men and women, but partly from what I have learned through more informal conversations and observations over many years of participant observation in southeastern Nigeria.

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Most Igbo men will say that Lavelle PA milf personals they ever caught their wife cheating, they would divorce. While this may not always be the case in practice, it would be surprising for a man to admit that his wife cheated or even that he suspected so. Instead, I think most men find it highly unlikely that their wives are cheating, because they know the social sanctions for a woman doing so are so great.

None of the wives in the study admitted that they had cheated on their husbands, though obviously their incentives to present themselves this way are even greater than the reasons men want to see them this way. The fact that most men know that most women have had premarital sex seems to be mostly sublimated when people talk about—and even in some cases when they have—marital sex.

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When I was asking one particularly educated and open man—a civil servant in his mid-forties—about marital sexuality and the kinds of things that he and his wife do to enhance sexual pleasure, he suggested that while he and his wife experimented somewhat in their sexual relationship, there were some things that a A two way plan Bayamon that leads to would be unlikely to do with his wife.

Further, even if they were tempted to introduce these practices in marriage e. But the conservatism of marital sex in southeastern Nigeria should not be exaggerated.

Many married men and, to a lesser extent, married women reported forms of sexual behavior and experimentation that struck me as quite liberal.

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And with the change in marriage privileging emotional intimacy, certainly sexual pleasure is something many couples value. But it is also clear that powerful gender dynamics enforce a code that it is the man Pussy i Culloden la should be the sexual aggressor and innovator. If it was difficult to get men to talk about marital sexual behavior in interviews, it was even harder to get women to do so, much less get them to discuss the adjustment or at least the appearance of an adjustment to marital monogamy after a history of premarital sexual activity.

For obvious reasons, married women in the study did not volunteer much information about their sexual histories, even when the interviewers were socially skilled fellow women. While some married women would eventually talk about the importance of marital sexual pleasure, we learned little in the study about what sorts of sexual desires women have that are not fulfilled in their marriages, much less whether they acted on.

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Some women attributed these changes to the relative shift in power that occurs at marriage. During courtship, a woman has two authoritative vetoes: she can deny sexual access and she can refuse to marry. In contrast, once a woman is married, the ability to opt out—of either marriage or marital sex—is dramatically reduced.

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